Sister of the bride dress

Oh my very gosh, I really am terrible, I don’t think I posted AT ALL last year!! :open_mouth: Soooo I have a lot to catch up on again (I didn’t even finish 2023!), lol, but I’m jumping straight to my most recent make as I love it so much :blush:

So when I received the invite to my sister’s wedding earlier in 2025, I realised obviously I had to make myself a fancy new dress to wear to such an auspicious occasion!

I toyed with the idea of making something convertible so I could have a different look for the evening, or multiple pieces so I could nip out and change my look, but as per usual my ADHD brain ensured that I didn’t have the time left to tackle something requiring extra thought! :exploding_head:

I browsed the online retail shops for plus-sized dress ideas and found one I loved and knew would work well for my shape, so then had to try and find a pattern to try and match the vision.

I asked for help on a FB pattern forum and after quite a few patterns that just weren’t what I was after, and one that was very close but would require a fair bit of amendment, finally someone pointed me to the Lilou Dress by Pattydoo, which was exactly what I wanted, hurrah!! :grin:

I did run into a little issue as they don’t sell to the UK anymore after Brexit… buuuut a little ingenuity and I bought my pattern :wink:

Unsurprisingly I couldn’t settle on my fabric either so I bought quite a few options, but ended up going with this fabulous “lilac moths” in Scuba Crepe. I’m not particularly “girly” and moths felt just gothic/mystic enough to suit me, especially with some moth accessories :butterfly:

I used the FBA pattern addendum, which was a godsend as I hadn’t initially spotted it and was struggling to adjust the top pattern to fit me (hubby comforting me as the tears rolled!). I also made a couple of other hacks, I changed the sleeves to be flutter sleeves, added pockets (OF COURSE!!), and I gave the dress a high-low hemline. I also made a bra to match using a George and Ginger pattern (with a FBA) so no-one would notice if the neckline slipped a bit on the dress!! :face_with_hand_over_mouth:

I’m pleased to say that I absolutely adore my new dress, I’ve lost nearly 5 stone (68lbs so far) since April last year and I felt absolutely amazing in it. And to boot it was also the most gorgeous sunny October day, and the wedding went without a hitch! :person_with_veil::person_in_tuxedo::smiling_face_with_sunglasses:

Sorry for no pups in this post, but I’ll make up for it by making my next one Atlas’ pjs :grin: :dog:
Loops x

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Lovely to see you loops and this dress is gorgeous

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We have missed your lovely posts…and you and your projects!

This has so many good things. The dress and fabric are fabulous and you look great! I love hearing how you modified things to suit you…of course, when we sew, we can do what we want!

Also, congrats on losing the weight! Hear is to all the feels in 2026!

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There you are! SO nice to see you back here. You look smashing in your pretty dress. Brilliant to make a bra to go with! I’m really looking forward to seeing more of your makes here and some pup pics!

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The dress is awesome and you look great in it! Beautiful day for a wedding! The shoes go very nicely with the dress, too :heart:

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:person_juggling: :person_cartwheeling: :clap: :heart_hands: :person_juggling: :person_cartwheeling: :clap: :heart_hands: :person_juggling: :person_cartwheeling: :clap: :heart_hands: CONGRATS! Your great topic is one of this week’s Featured Projects! :person_juggling: :person_cartwheeling: :clap: :heart_hands::person_juggling: :person_cartwheeling: :clap: :heart_hands::person_juggling: :person_cartwheeling: :clap: :heart_hands:

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you’re back! the dress is lovely as always

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Hello hello! So lovely to see you again!

This dress looks so good on you! So with the effort of the adjustments!! Matching bra is GENIUS! And those shoes are the perfect complement!

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The dress is lovely! What a fun print. I agree that the matching bra is genius, especially with a faux-wrap bodice. You look radiant, and it’s not just the bright, fabulous shoes.

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What a stunning dress! Well done.

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Congrats on being a Featured Project! :hearts:

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@Edel Glad to be back! I’ll try and be a bit more regular this time and not drop off the Earth! :grin:

@AIMR Aww thank you. Absolutely, there’s nothing like being able to customise your makes to suit just what you envisage!! :star_struck:

@TheMistressT Here I am! I’ve made 3 bras with the leftover fabric now and I think I still have more fabric too, lol, but I did buy 6 metres of it so that’s not surprising! Deffo the pup pjs for my next post, it’s time to show off my big cutie Atlas now he’s all grown :blush:

@LindyBlues I know right, I absolutely adooooore those shoes, I ended up buying them in 2 shades of purple and if I wore fancy shoes more often I’d deffo buy them in more colours too, lol.

@bethntim Aww thank you, I love that pattern so much (not that I’ve made my tweaks!) that I’m planning to make some more dresses like it. I have in mind a doggy design fabric (for one of the summer dog shows I have a stall at) and a Christmas one :grin:

@Bunny1kenobi Hello hello back to you! I honestly don’t think I’ve made a better fitting dress before, and I made a few dresses last year. I made quite a few mock-ups of the top part to try and perfect it before cutting into my final fabric!

@tendstowardschaos Oh absolutely, I didn’t drink at the wedding (other than a lil prosecco after the ceremony) as solidarity since hubby had to drive, and yet by the end I’m sure I did a little accidental flashing so it was deffo a good move making the matching bra!! :smiling_face:

@MistressJennie Thank you so much :blush:

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@sweets4ever and @TheMistressT Blimey that was good timing, I must have posted just before the Featured Projects were picked! Thank you so much :smiling_face_with_three_hearts: xxx

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Your comments back to us all just made my day so much better! :smiling_face_with_three_hearts:

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Aww, I’d feel rude not responding to everyone when you were all so nice! It’s fantastic being back with such a lovely supportive community :blush: I’m planning on sewing a lot more this year so hopefully I’ll be a lot more regular posting and dropping by to see everyone else’s makes too!!

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FUN FACT: When I was still in the dress planning stages, I had hoped I would be gifted some v v pricey silk jersey fabric (I’m a Brand Ambassador for Minerva, which just means they gift me fabric as long as I make stuff with it and post pics and review on their site!!), which was like £134 or something per metre (I think the most I’ve ever paid for fabric was about £18 pm!) and I wanted 4-5m :astonished_face: But unfortunately they didn’t have any slots left for that fabric base, boooooo. :unamused_face:

But the lilac moths scuba crepe fabric I ended up getting [from somewhere else] only cost me £3 pm :star_struck: Lol, so I went from one extreme to another!!! I actually just ordered some more fabric from this same place, including 10kg of fabric for £14… which is apparently ~27 metres… I think I might need to ‘take over’ another bedroom just to store it all… :face_with_hand_over_mouth:

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It will be great to see what you make with all that fabric!

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You look fantastic, and your dress is amazing!
I’m always impressed when you post, so thanks for sharing your projects!

P.S. I like your version much better than the one on the pattern page!

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Welcome back! It’s always great to see your wardrobe creations (and pups :dog_face: ).
your dress is wonderful, the color is great with your hair.

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You look amazing in that dress!

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